S Self-Assessment Form
A Comprehensive Evaluation for Dominants in the BDSM Community
Basic Information
| Height | |
| Weight | |
| Occupation | |
| Marital/Parental Status | |
| Age |
Physical Fitness
Stamina & Strength
| Get winded climbing two flights of stairs | |
| Can do 30 minutes of continuous cardio | |
| Can run 3000m in under 15 minutes | |
| Can do more than 20 consecutive pull-ups | |
| Super strength - can lift a person as easily as a small chicken |
Physique
| Honestly, I have a belly | |
| I love fitness but show no visible training results | |
| Abs? Yes, under the fat layer | |
| Eight-pack abs, really! | |
| No muscles, just visible ribs |
Appearance Type
| Long-haired male | |
| Buzzcut male | |
| Rocker male | |
| Lean muscular male | |
| Abstract male | |
| Athletic type |
Basic Knowledge Assessment
| Do you understand the SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual) principle? | |
| Do you know what a "safeword" is? | |
| Do you understand that power comes from your partner and can be revoked? | |
| Do you possess a service mentality? | |
| Are you emotionally stable? |
Purpose of Seeking an M (Submissive)
| Pure curiosity, want to try it out | |
| Feeling repressed, looking for someone to vent on | |
| Clear self-awareness, seeking a long-term intimate relationship with compatible kinks |
Skills (Fill-in Questions)
| Skills to give your partner an amazing experience | |
| Medical care/first aid skills | |
| Pleasant voice, good at reassuring and comforting | |
| Financial capability | |
| Excellent chef, cooking skills | |
| Other (please specify) |
Experience
| Newbie, no prior experience | |
| Occasional experimentation | |
| Currently in a relationship (Don't make me unknowingly become the third party) | |
| Had a regular M before, currently none | |
| Currently have M(s), total of , and I want more | |
| Had previous M partners | |
Reasons for M's Departure
| Universal excuses: M went abroad/fell in love/got married | |
| Had a major conflict | |
| Lost interest | |
| Force majeure/uncontrollable circumstances | |
| Ended peacefully and amicably | |
| Other (please specify): | |
| Average duration of past relationships: | months |
Short Answer Questions
1. How do you typically conduct informed consent confirmation?
2. How do you typically perform aftercare?
Dominant Self-Evaluation
Availability & Presence
| Available on demand, always online | |
| Reply when free | |
| Once a day, good morning and good night | |
| Once a week, I'm busy | |
| Only contact me if there's an emergency | |
| Just assume I'm dead |
Interaction Style
| Fierce, assertive, robust, hot-tempered mode | |
| Equal, warm, friendly, well-behaved mode | |
| Play and daily life mutually switching mode | |
| I am your Master's daddy mode - anytime, anywhere, heaven and earth | |
| I am the king, doing as I please, you must obey - high-pressure mode |
M's Position in Your Life
| Cherished intimate relationship | |
| Play partner who doesn't interfere with daily life | |
| A pastime remembered only when lonely | |
| Disposable item, forgotten after use | |
| A bragging right to show off to friends |
S Self-Assessment Form - For Educational and Self-Reflection Purposes
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